Dear Lior,
You are four months old. You are so beautiful and perfect. I absolutely love being your mum, and every week gets better than the last. I love my days with you- being at home, and watching you smile, learn and play. You are my sunshine.
This month we went and visited your Nonna on the Gold Coast, and we all stayed the night. You were a little unsettled. I guess you’re getting old enough now to know when you’re at home, and when you’re at someone else’s house. This month you also met a brand new friend- Tilly! She was born about a week ago, and is quite beautiful.
For most of your fourth month you still had really bad wind. I got really angry that noone was taking your pain seriously, and was sick of trying everything I could think of. I called lots of people- the doctors, the child health clinic, and the naturopath, and while I was waiting for the appointments I tried giving up dairy to see if you had an infant dairy intolerance. Well, it turns out you did. All this time I’d been avoiding other foods (and probably eating EXTRA dairy because of that) and it was the cow proteins that were making you sick! Well today, on your four month birthday you’ve been gas free for eight days! I am so happy, and life has improved dramatically for all of us.

About a day after you had no wind, I realised that while you were generally a pretty good sleeper, we had spoiled you a bit because you were in pain. It was time to help you learn some good sleep habits, so we did some sleep training with you, and now you’re almost a perfect self-soother! I know things might change if you get sick, or when your teeth get bad, but for now Daddy and I are enjoying having some time together in the evenings, and I’ve got so much more energy now that I’m not spending so much time putting you to sleep each day!

I do have to mention, that for a few nights there your wind and therefore sleeping at night was so increadibly terrible that Grandma had to come and stay just so mummy could get some sleep! You like having Grandma around- she came to visit and help mummy quite a few days this month.

You met your Uncle Jordan this month, which was pretty exciting. He was down from Daydream Island, and came for dinner to see how awesome you are.


In the last week we bought you a little seat for the bath. So it’s no more baby bath, and only the occasional shower with dad now. I think (hope!) you like sitting up in the bath a bit, and I’m looking forward to when you can play with your bath toys!
Did I mention how much I love you? I seriously do. I love watching you get better at tummy time (though still not your favourite thing!!), rolling to your sides, kicking and hitting the bats on the mobile above your mat, sitting up in your bumbo, looking around, smiling, snuggling into our necks when you’re tired, watching Pepper, chewing on toys, and watching the pages as we read you books!


Also, for the sake of record keeping, I fed you some mushy figs this week to help you poo. You’re terribly stuffy in there, and the naturopath recommended some figs and prunes to keep you a bit more regular! You don’t mind it, but don’t really like eating for very long. You much prefer the boob, which suits me just fine! I’m favouring the tummy massages for getting your poop out!
I think that’s about all for month four. You’re looking so grown up, and make my heart melt often. I love you.

